Anonymous asked: I've been cutting so much. I don't want to but I can't stop. It's easier to cut than deal with what's goign on.

Answer:

You can stop cutting and you will stop cutting.

In the end, what dose cutting leave you with?  Arms and legs that you have to hide.  The scars leave constant reminders of a bad time in your life.  When really this bad time you’re going through won’t last forever.

Life can be a bitch but its up to you to learn from it.  I don’t know what you’re going through right now, but you can let it make you stronger or you can let it tear you down.  Right now you’re letting it tear you down.

Take all your blades and throw them away.  Fight the urge to cut and soon enough you wont have to fight it anymore.  Soon enough those scars will fade and you wont have the constant memory of something you would rather not remember.

I’m being totally serious.  Starting right now, never ever tough do harm to your body again.  It’s not worth it and you deserve so much better than that.

Anonymous asked: I need advice.

Answer:

I am happy to give it. 

Advice, ask me anything <3 →

I dont know.

Anonymous asked: im in a abusive situation but im scared to leave.

Answer:

Listen.  You need to leave.  PLease leave

IF you are scared, you can call the police and notify them that you are about to break up with an abusive person

If you dont want to do that, have people there with you.

There are shelters that you can go to that i will protect you if you are scared.  PLease please please please leave.  YOu do not want to spend the rest of your life with this guy.  THe sooner the better and never EVER let yourself be with a guy who does not respect you again.

If you need more help on how to leave please message me.

Advice, ask me anything → #advice  #suffering  #depression  #self harm  #cutting  #death  #suicide 

Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional.

So maybe my mom was right? Maybe it is my fault that the family has to suffer.

Anonymous asked: So, Here is the problem. I really like this nice and cute guy, and I'm 14, but my parents think that I'm to young for having a boyfriend or anything like that, but I don't want to live my life for them. Do you think I should wait with it or should I just tell him about it without my parents knowing?And what if I get rejected?

Answer:

If your parents don’t want you dating, I don’t think you should date then.  They will let you date when you’re older.  Im going to be totally honest though, dating when you’re 14 is almost totally pointless.

You still have plenty of life to live.  You won’t be living your life for them if you date this guy.  You really think that this guy could make your life?  This could be the one?  I highly suggest you trust your parents.  Sometimes they do know what they are talking about.

You have to think if you want your parents to lose trust in you.  Even if you choose to date him and not tell then, you will still feel guilty and have to make up lies to them every time you want to hang out with him.

I think you should talk to your parents about him.  See what they have to say, making it clear that you will respect any decision that you will make.

If you get rejected then I guess none of this was really necessary though.  There are other boys out there waiting for you.  :)

I prove people wrong so hard! #:)  #lol